LORD, SEND ME A MAN
By Marian Powell

"Trust in the Lord and do good; dwell in the land and enjoy His pastures. Delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart."
Psalms 37:3-4 NIV

I can remember as a child wanting to have the wedding of my dreams and marrying my Prince Charming. I wanted a big house near the water and I wanted to have a boy, a girl and a dog. I also wanted to be well off. I guess that's the typical dream for a little girl. Then as I got older, I still wanted the dream, but I expected a little more. I started focusing on what kind of man I wanted and what kind of woman I wanted to be. I knew that I needed God because without God I was nothing. I wanted a man who feared god and served Him wholeheartedly. I wanted someone who had a relationship with the Lord like I do. Most important, I wanted him to be saved sanctified and Holy Ghost filled.

I used to write in my journal about the life I wanted to have and the man I wanted to spend it with. I also used to pray to God to send me my husband. Well, I waited a long time. I went through some things that I know I had to go through in order to become the person I am today. At one point, I didn't believe that I was ever going to have what my heart desired, a family. Once I started focusing on God and getting a peace of mind, things started to turn around. I met my husband when I was 27 years old. We dated for seven months and then got married.

It's funny how we got married because it wasn't the way I dreamed it would be. I can say that it was unique. We had planned to get married in June of 1999, but the planning started giving us a big headache.

On January 6, 1999, we decied to elope. On that day, we went and got our marriage license and we called my pastor and told him that we wanted to get married and that we were on our way to his job. we were married at an Amoco gas station. What a wedding! We had the cashier as our witness and we toasted with strawberry slushes afterward. We were so excited and happy. When we left, both of said that it was the wildest thing that we had ever done inour lives. And if that wasn't crazy enough, my husband was on his lunch break and he had to go back to work. When he got off work, we went out to eat, to the movies and played video games at the arcade like two big kids. We had a ball! We felt very blessed.

When you wait on God and live accordng to His will, he will give you the desires of your heart. Be patient and find joy in the Lord and He will send you the right one.

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